Annikki and Jacob Matthan live in Oulu, Finland. Annikki is a Finn, Jacob an Indian. They are the founders of the Findians Movement way back in 1967. Both are now retired. They have been married for 57 years. This blog is an account of their lives and thoughts as reminiscenced through Annikki's and Jacob's eyes.
Thursday, September 21, 2023
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Thursday, March 15, 2012
Sheer stupidity - Where will it lead to?
The CSF newsletter contained this a few days ago:
Black beaded mangalsutra with cross.
UK denies Christians right to wear crucifix
United Kingdom, March 11, 2012: The British government asserts that Christians have no right to wear a cross or crucifix at work and is eager to prove it in court.
The case was initiated by two British women Nadia Eweida and Shirley Chaplin, after they were punished for refusing to take off their religious symbols.
Nadia Ewedia is a British Airways employee, who was asked to cover her cross while at work, and was placed on unpaid leave when she refused to do so. Shirley Chaplin is a nurse moved to a desk position after she refused to remove a crucifix.
The women claim they were discriminated against when their employers barred them from wearing a cross and crucifix respectively.
The government position is that wearing the cross is not a “requirement of the faith” and therefore employers can ban the wearing of the cross at work.
The case has been taken to the European Court of Human Rights, which is to decide on whether the right to wear a cross is protected under Article 9 of the European Convention on Human Rights.
Article 9 states: “Everyone has the right to freedom of thought, conscience and religion; this right includes freedom to change his religion or belief, and freedom, either alone or in community with others and in public or private, to manifest his religion or belief, in worship, teaching, practice and observance.”
Eweida and Chaplin claim banning the cross and crucifix at work violates their human right to manifest their religion.
But the authorities insist that since wearing the cross is not a “requirement of the faith” it does not fall under the remit of Article 9.
Lawyers for the two women say “manifesting” religion includes doing things that are not a “requirement of the faith”, and that they are therefore protected by human rights.
The case has stirred up British society. The former Archbishop of Canterbury, Lord Carey, accused authorities of “dictating” to Christians, saying it was another example of Christianity becoming sidelined.
Many say the government’s position in this case is largely shaped by the British Roman Catholic Church’s attacks on the government’s plan to legalize same-sex marriage.
The plans were announced by conservatives during the parliamentary elections of 2010.
The country’s PM David Cameron himself spoke in favor of ending the ban on same-sex marriage at the Conservative Party Conference in October 2011. People should embrace same-sex marriage because of their conservatism and their commitment to family values and not in spite of it, Cameron said.
This is sheer stupidity.
The Mangalasutra (Thaali, Minnu) is a symbol of marriage among Hindus and Christians in India.
A Mangalsutra (Mangala sutra, Mangalasutra or Thaali) is a symbol of Hindu marriage union in South Asia. It is a sacred thread of love and goodwill worn by women as a symbol of their marriage. Traditionally the mangalsutra is considered the most revered token of love and respect offered to the bride during the marriage ceremony.
The following is also from Wikipedia:
It is called தாலி (thaali) in Tamil, ತಾಳಿ (thaali) or ಮಾಂಗಲ್ಯ (mangalyasutra) in Kannada and thaali (తాళి), maangalyam (మాంగళ్యము), mangalsutramu (మంగళసూత్రము) or pustelu (పుస్తెలు) in Telugu. Konkanis wear three necklaces around their neck referred to as Dhaaremani or Muhurtmani (big golden bead), Mangalasutra with one or two gold discs and Kasithaali with gold and coral beads. In Malayalam it is simply referred to as Thaali in general and Minnu by Syrian Christians.
A Thali (Minnu) is also worn by the brides of Kerala's Syrian Christian community. An engraving of the holy spirit is a distinguishing feature of the Syrian Christian Minnu. According to tradition, the families of the bride and the bridegroom contribute a piece of gold and melt it with the help of the family goldsmith. This is then used to make the rest of the necklace. The process of tying is assisted by a sister of the groom, as it is with other Hindu communities. During the wedding ceremony, the Minnu is held on and tied using a braided thread made with several threads taken from the Manthrakodi (wedding saree) and twisted together,.
Christians attach a cross in the thread and it is a symbol of love and marriage union.
The case registered by these British Government against these two ladies has far reaching consequences and is not only against Christianity but all major world religions.
It is an attack by the British Government on love and marriage. No one would be permitted to wear a thread around their neck! I think this extremist views against all religions should end forthwith.
What do you think?
Monday, January 28, 2008
Secret revelations: The women in my life
chalk crayon drawing on the green grass of Woodchurch Road (Photo by Josey).
our engagement at Woodchurch Road, London.
When I was courting my Miss Universe, one would think there would never be any other women in my life!
arrives at St. Mary's Cathedral, Shrewsury.
to embark on our difficult journey through life.
Annikki became my Mrs. Universe.
Then Annikki became my Mother Universe. A more capable mother there never has been. She brought her children up in the most difficult of circumstances with never a complaint!
In 1997 she became my Grandmother Universe.
Annikki, besides being the most beautiful woman alive, is also one of the most principled persons you are likely to see on the face of ths earth. In all my 44 years with her she has never been able to tell a lie, not even a white lie! She would rather say nothing than tell a fib! And what gave her all these Universe titles are her creativity in so many ways - from cakes to interior decor and creating art from rubbish, and even in her novel methods of educating her children.
To see her in her fullest glory, do visit the website A Tribute
So one would suspect with that string of "Universe" titles, there would be no other women in my life!
How wrong can you be, as I expose all!
But you will have to wait till tomorrow, as it would be shameful to tell this part of the story on this our 41st Wedding Anniversary. :-)
Friday, November 09, 2007
The quiet German girl gets....
Posted on the Oulu CHAFF Blog and my Jacob's Blog.
Almost two years ago, I picked up a very shy German girl at Oulu Airport. She had never travelled out of her home state. I took her to our daughter's home as she had signed to be a tenant. Then I took her for first meal in Oulu at the Pailin Restaurant, as Pornpailin Weber, spoke fluent German. Kerstin was "at home" within a few hours of arrival in this big bad world of Oulu!
Kerstin was clutching a little book in her hand. At the next CHAFF meeting I introduced her to the authors of that book, Ildikó amd Ilari, who had written "Culture Shock Finland" in German! Was she surprised!
From then, Kerstin became a dedicated CHAFF participant, attending many meetings and taking part in all the major CHAFF events in the spirit of all our CHAFF participants.
Kerstin became a great friend of our grandson, Samuel, as they could discuss "Football". They watched several World Cup matches together, each rooting for their own teams.
When she finished her stint at Oulu University, where she was working for her German employer, we were all very sad to see her leave, as it has been with many other CHAFF Participants from around the world.
This evening when I opened my email INBOX, there was an email with the subject line:
Dear Friends,
Yes! From now on I am Ms Mike also known as Ms Birkner!!
Mike and I got married on October 27th and we returned from our honeymoon in Vienna last Tuesday.
The wedding was fabulous! - We had a great and long party with family and friends.
Unfortunately until now I have only a few wedding pictures of groom & bride together, snapshots taken from my little brother. As soon as I receive the other pictures I will email them to you.
For the beginning I send you a few snapshots...
And now...there is another news...Mike and I are pleased to announce that our small family will grow next year (end of April)...I am pregnant and we are happy!!!
Love from grey and moistly Germany,
Kerstin
First time I am hearing of a Best Woman!
All at CHAFF are immensely pleased at this news. I share the photographs that Kerstin sent with all of you.
I hope Kerstin and Mike will accept the congratulations and best wishes from all their dear friends from Oulu and hope the "family" will visit us here in the not too distant future.