Hilja celebrates her 87th Birthday

Annikki and I helped Hilja, Annikki's mother, celebrate her 87th birthday today.



Hilja certainly enjoyed the attention she got. Even through her dementia she recognised that it was HER birthday. She smiled almost through the whole day. She enjoyed sitting in the kitchen basking in the sunshine of a late winter's day.



She enjoyed her birthday cake made by Annikki, having a second helping as well.

The card from daughter, Aino, and her husband, Kaukko, already arrived yesterday. Son-in-law Kaukko rang to convey greetings today.

Son Erkki and family, in Tampere in south Finland, sent flowers for Hilja's birthday.

Hilja got a new air mattress yesterday. This relaxing mattress, a very new invention, is especially designed to ensure that she does not develop bed sores if she is forced to stay in bed for long periods.

A couple of weeks ago we got a hoist to help take Hilja out of bed and to help her move from one place to another. It has taken a great deal of strain of me, as Hilja is heavy. Lifting her bodily from the bed to the wheel chair and from the wheel chair to the toilet seat were certainly back-breaking tasks.

We look forward to Hilja enjoying her 88th birthday next year.

Both Annikki and I are very happy that she has been able to enjoy her home for the last 6 years, rather than being all alone in an Old People's Home, since the passing away of husband, Matti.

It has certainly been a stress on the two of us to look after Hilja, but the joy of having looked after her knows no bounds.