An update after 10 days

(Cross-posted on my main blogs.)
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I have not been ill or otherwise indisposed. Just very very busy, happy, sad, and going through every emotion that man or woman is capable of.

Over Easter we were especially blessed to know that our three children, Susanna, Jaakko and Joanna, in the UK, were able to get together with their families and also join up with us over the telephone.

This has been recorded on several entries on Susanna's Billinghay Blog with beautifully emotional pictures of all members of the family. They especially enjoyed a buffet lunch at the Lahore Restaurant in Birmingham. Joanna, who has really become quite trim, did say that she did overeat on that occasion. (I must also note that Susanna has also become quite trim - but just wait till they arrive and start consuming their mum's cooking, when they will bloat, like me!)

The grandkids were in their element. Susanna has recorded and put up a few short video clips, using effectively the UTube service.

This has prompted Joanna to think seriously in investing in a better digital camera and to start her own blog - which would be just wonderful for us, the grandparents. Maybe, even Jaakko can be persuaded to start his blog once he gets the old iMac that Susanna is thinking of passing on - Old Macs never DIE. I had promised them my old software, but unfortunately much of te old system software discs are corrupted. Jaakko being an outstanding photographer would certainly add a new dimension to blogging should he decide to take it up.

Last Friday brought Annikki and me much grief when we lost a wonderful friend, a Cathedralite by the name of Behram Badhniwalla, who went by the nickname of Budni. Budni was a couple of years senior to me in school. He stood out as he had been afflicted by polio and was the only boy in school who was on crutches. But that did not stop Budni being one of us. During the latter half of our school years I had an excellent relationship with him.

When I left school, our paths diverged. It was not till 2005 when they came together again. He had been doing almost exactly what I had, in finding his classmates and then making sure that they were kept together.

Introduced to me through our former school Physics Teacher, William Shiri, living in Toronto, Canada, Budni wrote in his first email to me:

from: Behram Badhniwalla
to jmatthan@gmail.com
date 21-Oct-2005 10:15
subject Fwd: Hello again

Dear Matthan,

My name is Dr.Behram T. Badhniwalla (Wilson House Batch 57), in school I was 'Budni'!

I used to walk on crutches during our green years.

Of course, I left my disability behind in 1959-60 (Praise be to the Good Lord).



Today my Wife, Carmie and I, have retired, and live in Pune.

From all the Cathedralites of our generation, and many have met u. the common factor is we both are holding on to our flocks!

I am forwarding a message from our teacher Mr Shiri, and I hope we communicate more often!

We have regular get-together of the Pune Cathedralites and shall revert later with more information!

Cheers for Now

Budni

From that day we have exchanged many hundreds of emails on topics ranging from sharing pictures of our school friends, sharing our email lists, finding new alumni, our common interests in music, organising class reunions, his idea of forming a health foundation of retired staff and elderly alumni who were not so fortunate financially, and many more. Budni bounced ideas off me. If I gave him the go ahead, he went about his task of rousing the masses.

Not only that, both of us got on like a house on fire. We assisted each other sharing our ideas, agreeing and disagreeing on issues, but above all promoting our "school spirit". Although our styles were different, but the objectives the same.

Budni made everyone feel loved and happy and part of a beautiful family.

On the morning of Friday 13th April 2007, I had two emails from him in the space of just 10 minutes, te first telling me that he would be away from Pune for 10 days and he would take up an issue I had requested as soon as he got back. The second email was about school, pushing the joint working of my Seventh Heaven Blog to be linked with the official school alumni site.

Budni was thinking of what wonders could be achieved if we all worked together.

By evening I received a message from a common friend in Pune that Budni was no more.

When such tragic news reaches me, I become immobile, unable to speak or do anything constructive. Annikki was at my side when I read this email. She comforted me, as she too had learnt to know Budni and his spirit. I was roused to work furiously to let "our flocks" know of the demise of someone who had become my right hand just so much as I had become his left!

The sorrow, grief and the tributes poured in from every corner of the globe. For the past week I have been composing a web page which I will call "A Tribute to Budni". It is difficult, as each time I enter some text or put in a picture, the sadness that flows through my veins makes me realise the frailty of life.



On the same day, we got news that our granddaughter, Asha, who will be 10 in August, had passed her Grade 3 Piano Examination with distinction, 134/150.


Budni, on the extreme left, is crooning at a CAT bash in Pune a few weeks ago.

Susanna put up a clip of Asha playing the piano on her blog, which helped me greatly to face the sorrow of losing a friend, as he was a great musician.

CEO of Codenomicon, Isaac Sundarajan, has been really jet setting. He flew to Cannes to collect the Red Herring Award, flew in to Oulu, flew out to spend Easter with his wife and elder daughter in London, flew back to the US (San Francisco) to prepare for his next year's strategy meeting, and was here, back in Oulu, yesterday.


Royal Garden Menu

We spent the evening together at Michelle's new Indian Restaurant, The Indian Cusine Section of Royal Garden. The last time he had been there, he had said he wanted food as hot as "Jacob's". Michelle and crowd only address me as "Mr. Matthan". so Isaac was a bit disappointed.

This time, Michelle's brother, Philip, dished out a really superb Chicken Vindaloo and a spicy lamb off the bone curry, which both of us relished. This was followed by some Guju Tea, which is laced with Indian spices.

I think the levels of spice in Michelle's Indian and Chinese restaurants will have to have new labels - "Joanna's level" (which is our daughter Joanna's taste buds saturation point and super not), and then "Mr. Matthan's level", which is only slightly lower, but does bring a fair amount of sweat onto the forehead.

Isaac and I sat and chatted well into the evening. Michelle and Philip regal led us with stories of their life in restaurant business. they were surprised to hear from Isaac that "Indian Chinese" is the "in thing" in California - so Philip has promised to didh this up for us on our next visit!

Easter morn 2007

Nothing is more pleasant for grandparents than to talk to their grandkids on Easter. It is not like Christmas, where it is the act of giving, but with Easter it is the rebirth of new life.

Joanna, Tony, Samu and Daniel decided to drive down from Newcastle to Billinghay in Lincolnshire. After spending the Saturday there, they went on to Birmingham to meet up with brother Jaakko and friend Joy. Chris could not accompany Susanna and Asha and the others as he was practicing for a recital.

However, before they left Billinghay, Susanna put up some wonderful photos and also two videos of hers which she has uploaded to UTube.

Instead of linking to them, I thought I would post one of them on my blogs as not many go across regularly to Susanna's blog. But visiting her blog is well worthwhile as she is also a fits and starts blogger like me, and usually our fits and starts come in different bursts!

Here is the first of the videos, which was entitled "Hello Grandpa and Grandma":



To see more videos and pictures, do go over to Susanna's Billinghay Blog where there are great pictures of the families and, hopefully, soon after Birmingham, we should also have pictures of Jaakko and Joy.

They are at the moment enjoying a Chinese buffet in the city that all of them know well from the 80s and 90s.

Yesterday and today...

(Cross-posted on all my main blogs.)

It was a great day, as all days are great these days.



Birthday greetings started pouring in from 4 am Finnish time starting from Toronto (59er Hasnain Chinwalla) and Australia (nephew Chacko Kovoor, son of Malli and Thamban) and reverberated around the globe - Chennai (Anand & Shalu), Mumbai (56er Ubi, 59ers Ashok Kapur, Ramesh Mirchandani, Piloo Tata, Percy Mistri, Nihal Kaviratne, Naubir Mohindar, Elijah Elias (Ooky), etc.), Billinghay (Susanna, Chris and Asha), Hewcastle (Joanna, Tony, Samuel and Daniel), New York (59er Ellis Hayeem), Milano (69er Barbara Mont Ros), Washington D. C. (59er Arvind Thadhani), Serbia (62er Ranko Ivancevic), and ended ending back in Toronto when 59er Viney Sethi, in the company of our Physics Teacher, Willie Shiri and his wife Pushpa, and 59er Hasnain regaled me with the happy birthday serenade.

The quartet thought I would not recognise their voices after so so many years. But Viney's was so identifiable and crystal clear (but not quite the old Elvis-like) as also the rich tenor-bass voice of Willie was easily identified, as he had sung behind me in the choir stalls of St. Thomas's Cathedral in the 50s.

These greetings were combined with hundreds of well-wishers from all across Scandinavia.

Such beautiful messages, such beautiful cards, such beautiful email greetings.

I felt awed by such an outpouring of love and friendship - that makes living one more year waiting for the next birthday, really something to look forward to!

The first to wish me was Annikki, who stayed up till 4 am, just so that she could show her appreciation of our ageing together as I woke up.

And the last to greet ME was again Annikki, who prepared a delicious cake - fruit salad and cream, which was being watched over by our most hawkish cat, Iitu! She (the cat) licked the platter clean. (I was out most of the day attending various public events and only got home around half past nine in the evening for our evening together!)

Michelle, the Chinese Calcutta Restaurateur opened her new Indian Restaurant (The Royal Garden) today. I enjoyed my super spicy Madras Curry for lunch and later brought home a Rogan Josh for Annikki and Mika.


Pailin carved me a watermelon as a gift.


Pailin gives me the carved watermelon as my present.

In between, the many Thai families who have adopted me as their father and grandfather, celebrated my birthday with Pailin carving a beautiful watermelon as one of their many gifts to me.


Heikki, Emilia and Päivi.


Eija, Eric and me.


Päivi, Eija, Eric and Heikki.

The organisers of the UN Anti Racism Week helped celebrate the public occasion by toasting the successful week with a closure meeting with a raspberry cream cake!

Old and young friends kept my mobile phone ringing, making it a day that I will remember for many years ahead.

Thank you to all of you, many whom have gone unmentioned in this blog entry - but I do remember all of you and your good wishes.

Harri Hursti?...

(Cross-posted on Jacob's Politics.)

Who is Harri Hursti?

Anyone interested in Internet Security and especially about safety in elections should know about the world expert on the subject.

In the article "Hackin' Harri Hursti a Hit in Riverside County, California" that appears on Brad Blog, where Brad Friedman has been a tireless campaigner despite all odds, to get the US Election System to become more realistic so that the frauds that occurred in 2000 and 2004 and got George W. Bush annointed (totally illegally) as pResident does not happen again.

Harri is a Finn and is, like Brad, a tireless campaigner, although his interest has been the subject of Security, a field in which the Finns lead the world! (Remember our very own Codenomicon Oy headed by CEO Isaac Sundarajan and headquartered here in Oulu.)

Harri will appear in a documentary released in the US on 17th March 2007 and to be released in the UK on 20th April 2007 called "Hacking Democracy (or Votergate)" directed by Simon Ardizzone and Russell Michaels.

And now it was Annikki's turn

Annikki was jealous that as I had joined the exalted company of Moses and Jesus, she wanted to walk on the sea!


So, there she is walking on the sea!



The ice had cracked but it was still several centimetres thick, so Annikki led the way.



And here is a picture of the shoreline as we stood about 400 to 500 metres on the sea. I have attempted to build the panoramic view from four shots, but I am not competent enough to get all the exposures on our cheap camera right to get the stitching as a perfect composition!

As we have changed to summertime, sunset is now past 7 pm. Annikki was busy collecting silver willow cuttings from the sea shore before we returned home.

Anti-Racism Week in Oulu

(Cross-posted on all my main blogs.)

Next week, 19th to 25th March 2007, is Anti-Racism week.

Tero Raiskio and I have been involved, as CHAFF Participants, with the Oulu based organisations - Amnesty International, the Finnish Red Cross, the United Nations, the International Schoolof Oulu and Setlementi, to organise a series of events to draw attention to this.

Ildikó Hámos kicked off the proceedings with a talk about CHAFF to the Oulu City Club of Rotary International. This was organised by another CHAFF participant, Ville Suomi, who is also a Rotarian.

Ildikó then helped me in a talk about Ethnic Minorities and their problems in Oulu and Finland. This was aimed at a group of students of the Heinatori School in Central Oulu. This was organised by Päivi Jurvakainen of the Oulu Office of the Finnish Red Cross.





I was able to distribute the new Oulu CHAFF laminated information cards to all those who took part. They were kindly printed for me by Unnop Khungrai of the Thai Pailin Restaurant.

Late in the evening, I was able to get the posters that announce next weeks events, from Päivi, who returned to her office to print them after she had gone home, so that I could distribute them to all the major restaurants run by foreigners in Oulu.

The Poster was designed by Zambian artist and CHAFF Participant, Kamutaza Tembo. He came up with 3 brilliant ideas. The Organising Committee chose the one shown above to highlight all the events.



The feeling is so symbolic as the Finnish Flag in the form of a heart shaped key holder with three keys (white, black and yellow) symbolising the ethnic minorities is simply superb and absolutely original.

The other designs by Kamu are also being used for other documents associated with the Racism Week.

To help defray the costs of Kamu's designing work, Isaac Sundarajan, CEO of Codenomicon Oy, Hasim and Kasim, partners of Goreme Pizzeria, Unnop Khungrai, proprietor of the Thai Pailin Restaurant and Oulu Councillor Raimo Kuismin, joined Annikki and Jacob. Our special thanks to them for giving their hand to help a truly outstanding artist.

To see other works of Kamu, please click on a link in the sidebar, where I have set up a page of some of his great art works dating back to the time he was a young budding artist in Zambia.

Hilja celebrates her 87th Birthday

Annikki and I helped Hilja, Annikki's mother, celebrate her 87th birthday today.



Hilja certainly enjoyed the attention she got. Even through her dementia she recognised that it was HER birthday. She smiled almost through the whole day. She enjoyed sitting in the kitchen basking in the sunshine of a late winter's day.



She enjoyed her birthday cake made by Annikki, having a second helping as well.

The card from daughter, Aino, and her husband, Kaukko, already arrived yesterday. Son-in-law Kaukko rang to convey greetings today.

Son Erkki and family, in Tampere in south Finland, sent flowers for Hilja's birthday.

Hilja got a new air mattress yesterday. This relaxing mattress, a very new invention, is especially designed to ensure that she does not develop bed sores if she is forced to stay in bed for long periods.

A couple of weeks ago we got a hoist to help take Hilja out of bed and to help her move from one place to another. It has taken a great deal of strain of me, as Hilja is heavy. Lifting her bodily from the bed to the wheel chair and from the wheel chair to the toilet seat were certainly back-breaking tasks.

We look forward to Hilja enjoying her 88th birthday next year.

Both Annikki and I are very happy that she has been able to enjoy her home for the last 6 years, rather than being all alone in an Old People's Home, since the passing away of husband, Matti.

It has certainly been a stress on the two of us to look after Hilja, but the joy of having looked after her knows no bounds.

Moses parted the Red Sea, Jesus walked...

In the Old Testament of the Holy Bible, Moses is reported to have struck the Red sea with his Staff and the sea parted allowing the Israelis to cross to the other side to escape the Egyptians who were chasing them.

In the New Testament of the Holy Bible, Jesus was seen by His disciples walking on water to the ship they were sailing in.

Both these items are now the subjects of serious researchers who are trying to attach scientific explanations to what was regarded as miracles.

Well today we can add one more to their studies.

Tero went to the Island of Hailuoto on his Scooter last Wednesday to spend the night there. On his way back on Thursday, his scooter packed up on the island, forcing him to call me. As he came back to the mainland, I was able to pick him up near the ferry jetty.

We decided to go early this Saturday morning with my trailer to pick up his scooter. The trusted SAAB took us by 07:30 am to the jetty, only to find that the next ferry was over an hour away.

I decided I would drive the SAAB and trailer over the sea to the island. With bated breath I drove Tero (whom I saw crossing himself all over) on the sea to the island. It was quite a bumpy ride with visibility, due to mist over the sea, down to a couple of metres.

We loaded the scooter onto the trailer and we wended our way back on the sea back to the mainland.

As we reached the jetty on the mainland we passed the ferry making its way to the island.

Quite a miracle, I would say - driving to an island on the sea!

A Volvo on the Ice Road.

Oh! Before you rush off to equate me and the SAAB with Moses and Jesus, did I fail to mention - the sea was frozen over and we went by the 9 km long ice road! :-)

Last Saturday night, the eclipse

I forgot to mentioin that last Saturday night I rushed off to Samu's house and picked up his telescope as Annikki wanted to see the total lunar eclipse.

I set it up at the bottom of the garden. By 10:20 pm I was ready.

However, Annikki had miscalculated as the eclipse only started at 11:22 pm.

Shadowy Annikki peering into the telescope.

We watched the eclipse start. As it was progressing slowly, we kept going indoors as it was freezing cold outside.


The red glow of the night sky.

The eclipse progressed slowly. We did not see much red as was being described on the internet.

I was also watching the progress from a live webcam from somewhere in the Atlantic, where the moon was really quite red.


Total eclipse means RED.

We watched the eclipse till it reached totality. Only when the reverse process started did Annikki decide it was time to go to bed.

An evening well spent!

Samuel is 10

In many ways it was a sad birthday for grandson Samu.

His father, Tony, is away in Calofornia. His paternal grandparents are in Kalajoki, Finland and his maternal grandparents, Annikki and me, are here in Oulu.

Samu, our eager beaver football star

I had promised to ring Samu in the morning at 07:30 English time. Although I tried several times, the Newcastle line was not clear.

So as soon as I felt he would be back from school, we rang Newcastle, and in turn I and Annikki (in that order) sang our hearty "Happy Birthday" greetings to Samu. He actually tolerated his grandparents singing!

To give Samu something substantial, both sets of grandparents joined with Samu's parents, at Joanna's suggestion, to get him a new bike in England. So, when I was able to ask Samu whether he liked it, he described the colours, red and black as those of Real Madrid! Obviously he liked it as he was able to equate it to his love.

It is difficult to bear our grandchildren, all three of them, Samuel, Asha and Daniel, growing up so far away from us. They are children for so short a time that each day lost is a great tragedy in our hearts.

As I have told Samu many times, in a few years he will have many other interests and friends and his grandparents will be old foggies.

Samu has always expressed that it will never be so.

So long as we share the same interests - that is MY interest in HIS interests, we will remain as close as is possible for grandson with grandfather.


Samu, the Superdog

I am looking forward to "Superdog" returning for the summer holidays this year. Although it will be for just a short while, I certainly will enjoy every minute of our summer time together.

How I wish that little Asha will also be with us this summer, just as all of us cousins used to go to Kottayam to spend our holidays with our grandparents when we were kids.

Those are days that I can never forget, even in my old age!

One of my rare lectures

(Cross-posted on the CHAFF Blog.)

As you all know, I HAVE RETIRED!

So, when Emelia Frantsi asked me to give a lecture (in English) at the Oulu University to her social anthropology group about immigrants to Oulu, I was hesitant at first as I have not indulged in lecturing for many a year - probably six.



However, the fire still burns in my belly to share my experiences with students. Here was an opportunity to find out whether the time was ripe for the re-writing of our book "Handbook for Survival in Finland" that Annikki and I wrote way back in 1993 and released it in 1994.

Culture Shock, Authors, Inscription, Cover

I have been toying with this idea for several months. Since Ilari Sohlo and Ildikó Hámos, the authors of the book "Culture Shock Finland" in German are now in Oulu, I really have a burning feeling that between the four of us (two Finns a, one Hungarian/Austrian and a Findian) we should be able to turn out a middle of the road book, especially as Ildikó is now on several committees and sits on various organisations which are handling matters related to ethnic minorities and the problems in Oulu and to some extent, Finland.

I do not as yet know what I will use as a title for this lecture. I intend to use a few extracts from our previous book, which although 12 years old is still valid on several sore points.

If any of you are interested in attending this lecture on Wednesday April 4th 2007 at 14:15, I can ask Emilia for permission.

It will be many years till I give my next lecture!

Indian lady joins Nokia Board

The drumbeat is growing as Nokia woos India as the enormous market is just opening up for it. Nokia now needs India more than India needs Nokia. In that corporate game, Nokia has appointed a well-known financial expert, Lalita Gupte, to the Board of Nokia.

The Nokia Governance Committee will propose that Ms. Lalita D. Gupte, Prof. Dr. Henning Kagermann, and Olli-Pekka Kallasvuo be elected as new members of the Nokia Board for the term from the Annual General Meeting in 2007 until the close of the Annual General Meeting in 2008.



Lalita was the former Joint Managing Director of ICICI Bank Limited, the second-largest bank in India, and is currently non-executive Chairman of the ICICI Venture Funds Management Co Ltd. She is also member of the Board of Directors of Bharat Forge Ltd, Firstsource Solutions Ltd and Kirloskar Brothers Ltd.

Lalita joined ICICI in 1971. She represents half a generation away from me. It is likely that during my time in India, when I was on the Expert Committees vetting projects for ICICI that our paths may have crossed, but I cannot swear to that! I seem to remember that she took part in one investigation where I appeared as the Technical Expert for the project!

However, one story that I have told many times stands out at this juncture.

Prof. Seppo Leppävuori with the late Mr. K. M. Mammen Mappillai and his wife at their Madras home. Photograph taken by Paul Collander of Nokia Research (1987).

In 1987, Paul Collander, who was a Senior Researcher in Nokia Research in Espoo and my then colleague, Professor Seppo Leppävuori, went on a working visit to Singapore. At my insistence, they decided to stop over in India. They met up with my uncle, the late K. M. Mammen Mappillai, who was then Chairman and Managing Director of MRF Ltd.


A 20-year younger beardless me on the extreme left and His Excellency K. P. Fabian, Indian Ambassador to Finland on the extreme right, on his visit to our Microelectronics Laboratory, University of Oulu.

Backed by the then Indian Ambassador to Finland, His Excellency K. P. Fabian, I organised a visit for them to the Indian Institute of Science (IISc) in Bangalore, one of the best post-graduate research universities in India.

Both Seppo and Paul were very excited by what they saw. On their return, Paul published an internal report to the Board of Nokia about the immense possibility of using India as a base for advanced research for the expansion of Nokia.

Paul sent me the reply he got from the then Managing Director of Nokia, Kari Kairamo:

"Paris is too far for Nokia."

That visit did, however, set the stage for along and valuable cooperation between the IISc and our University of Oulu, Microelectronics Laboratory, with exchange of professors and researchers. On a couple of occasions I lectured to the Microelectronics and Electronics wing of IISc. We hosted Prof. B. S. Sonde, who was then the Head of the Electronics Department. Prof. Sonde later went on to be the Vice Chancellor of the University of Goa.

The appointment of Lalita to the Board is the culmination of a long battle to make this (Finnish?) multinational recognise the importance of India in the equation of world powers in the field of telecommunication.

Let us hope that this gentle lady will contribute to making the thinking of Nokia more humane than it has behaved in the last two quarters on 2006, where the company has caused great uncertainty amongst the many wonderful Finnish engineers working in their Finnish operations!

If you cut off the hand that feeds you for short term corporate gains, we in India know what will be the outcome. I am sure that, given her true skills, Lalita will play a role in correcting a now floundering multinational in the act of good governance.

And, dear Lalita - on your next visit to Oulu, do drop in and see us. We have now three current India related CEO's in Oulu (an Indian CEO for a Finnish company, a Finnish CEO for an Indian Company and an Indian CEO for an Indian Company).

However, you could meet the first member of this group, now happily retired, ME (CEO of nothing, nowhere!).

Finest leather products in Oulu

(Cross-posted on Oulu Best Buy Blog and the Oulu CHAFF Blog.)

It is quite a long time since we put up anything significant on the Oulu Best Buy Blog. We have recently put up one very negative entry, and another one is due shortly. All of a sudden Jacob was called to see what he thought needed to be a Oulu Best Buy entry.


Kasim, the football star in full flow.

Hasim with grandkids, Asha and Samu.

Kasim and Hasim, the owners of the Göreme Pizzeria in Ranta-Kastelli shopping center, Oulu, the best pizzeria in Oulu and probably Finland, have been Jacob's dear friends for many years. They are like his own children.

They have set up and built a fabulous reputation for their pizzeria over the years and that is because of their very personal involvement in the way the pizzeria is run. They are what we term "hands-on" owners who can cook, clean, serve and know every customer on a very personal basis.


Location map for both the Pizzeria and Leather Products Shop.

It is interesting to see that they have diversified their activities. They have started a fine leather products shop in Oulu, next to the Pizzeria, where they can make sure their personal involvement will keep their customers happy.

The leather products like jackets, coats, overcoats, handbags, etc. are designed by a top Finnish designing team in Vantaa, Finland. The designs are sent to Turkey where they produce the finest of soft leather from the goats. The goats are specially selected because there is no blemish on the surface and large hides are used.

Then the skill of the Turkish craftsmen produce the range of products which is being offered for the first time in Finland in Oulu.

Jacob was astounded by the quality of the leather products. But if one remembers that the Finnish word for fur id "turkis" which is because of the first fur traders to Finland came from Turkey, Hasim and Kasim are going to redefine the word "turkis" to mean the finest of Turkish leather products.

There is a 40% introductory discount on the products till tomorrow, Saturday, so make sure you rush there and see what they have to offer. Do tell them that Jacob sent you there.

You will get the same service which their pizzeria is famous for!

Spoilsport...

(Cross-posted on the Oulu CHAFF Blog.)

It is evident that why, whenever there is a contest or competition, relatives of the organisers are not allowed to take part!

Even before I had put up the competition in my last blog entry "Using metaphors", my dear daughter, Susanna, whose genetic code must be similar to mine, had this added as a Comment to that blog entry:

Tears are NORMALLY warm, not cold like Finnish rivers - no matter how fast or pure they are! The Ganga is normally associated with warmth.

Daughter Susanna is third from the left,
while daughter Joanna is second from right.
Photo taken at the reunion of cousins,
with families, in Florida, last Christmas.

Even I could not have written the correct interpretation as Susanna did.

So I shout "SPOILSPORT".:-)

Using metaphors

(Cross-posted on the Oulu CHAFF Blog.)



When we posted our last entry on the CHAFF Blog, we used a mataphor that the tears flowed like the River Ganges.

Several Finns and Indians resident in Finland were puzzled why we should use this metaphor, when there are lots of fast flowing rivers in Finland, with clear and pure water!

Valid question, but this metaphor was quite deliberate.



There will be an interesting prize for the first person who can guess why we used the River Ganges rather than our local river, Oulujoki! (Hint: No, it is nothing to do with pollution.)

Wake up and send us your thoughts on this.

Teaching driving

Ashesh and Indu bought Tony and Joanna's virtually unused car. Before I handed it over to them, I thought I would let Ashesh drive the SAAB for a few tens of kilometers, especially on a highway and a small town, so that he got a feel of the road and the flow of traffic.

So we took off to Raahe, about 80 km west of Oulu, as I had to return the projector I had borrowed for the Indian Evening from Lauri, and also a power adaptor which had been left behind by Mani Bhowmik. Tero Raiskio was with us, as he is Lauri's childhood friend, and he wanted to enjoy a drive while he played with his Geiger counter measuring some radiation on my Leather coat I had bought from the Flea market! :-)

We had a lively evening with Pooja, Mani and little Anusha. Karthik enjoyed himself playing with Anusha's toys while we warmed ourselves with some great tea brewed by Mani, while Pooja regaled us with her scintillating company.

Ashesh handled the SAAB delightfully, so I was quite confient that he could start driving his new car. On Saturday I went to deliver the car, but there is an Indian saying not to get anything new which is metallic on Saturdays. So, Saturday was driving familiarisation day for Ashesh on the streets of Oulu and he found the car to be just what he wanted. At times he had a problem to hear the virtually soundless engine.

The children's seat was too small for Karthik, so we will have to pick one up today.

I was driven all around Oulu by Ashes. Although Indu started off as a back seat driver, dreading how Ashesh would handle the car in the icey conditions, by the end of the day she was really comfortable to sit there with Ashesh driving.

In the bargain, I got a great vegetarian Indian meal cooked (rice, chapti or roti, dhal and a dry spicy vegetable served wiith sliced tomato, onion and apple, by Indu, and I got to play for a few hours with little Karthik. Karthik is truly a clever child and match you word for word with his logic.

Today, we will visit a Flea market and then I will be off to the CHAFF meeting where we will, very sadly, say farewell to our really wonderful CHAFF participant from Poland, Kasia Mazur.

The opposite of BEST BUY

(Cross posted on our Oulu Best Buy Blog and the CHAFF Blog.)

It is not often that we get angry or are deeply disturbed by an experience which will radically cause us to publish a very negative entry in the Best Buy Blog. However, during the last few weeks two things have deeply disturbed us. We felt we should let you know and add these shops and companies to a Oulu Best Not Buy list.

If you have a similar experience, please let us know.



The incident reported here is our experience with a large and well known organisation known as Instrumentarium. It sells medical equipment and also many consumer products including spectacles. Annikki and I have been so-called preferred customers in the shop and also our son Mika and Annikki's mother, Hilja, has been given this status. It was not our choosing but when we bought our glasses from them many years ago the shop added us to this list.

Last week the frames of the spectacles of both Mika and Hilja broke, resulting in us having to order new spectacles for them. As both are invalids in my care, Jacob, who handles all the outside work for them, took the spectacles to Instrumentarium to get them repaired, or failing which, to get new glasses for them. The latter turned out to be true.

The pleasant lady who took the order took all the details, and Jacob found that out would take a few days before the glasses would be ready. So she gave him a note saying that the company would intimate him when they were ready.

As glasses are quite expensive and since the financial matters of Hilja are not controlled by us but a Public Guardian, Jacob thought it would be best to get the bill for the glasses and give them to the Guardian well before the glasses arrive, so that it could be paid directly by the Guardian. Jacob's life is so hectic, he likes to get things done well in advance so as not to be rushing around at the last minutes sorting out issues.

He visited the shop and gave a notification to the store clerk of the details of the Public Guardian asking them to send the bill for Hilja's glasses to the Guardian. The store clerk tried to ring through to the 3 phone numbers provided but she could not get through. So, Jacob asked the clerk to make out the Proforma Invoice for the glasses so that he could take it to the Guardian so that they could pay the amount before the glasses arrived.

Strangely, he was told that this was not possible. The computer could not produce a bill unless he was willing to pay 30% of the amount.

This was a stupid demand, as an invoice is not a binding document. All Jacob was asking was for a document so as to pay the dues before the glasses were even available or taken from the shop. They were due several days later.

Jacob was met with an absolute blanket statement that this was store policy. The refusal was so ridiculous and illogical and there was no way that it could be explained why it had to be.

We handle the purchasing of many items for Hilja and we deal with many shops. In most cases we just have to give the Public Guardian's name and address and show Hilja's Social Security card. The shops take all the steps to ensure that the bill is sent to the Public Guardian. In one case, for her sanitary supplies, we just order it by email and request the bill to be sent directly to the Public Guardian. It has never been a problem.

But this totally illogical, customer-repellent attitude of Instrumentarium suddenly set our memory cells working.

We recalled that almost 6 years ago when we went and ordered glasses for Hilja, we were told that we could not pay the bill through the bank, but had to pay by cash. We had to drag my half-invalid then 81 year old mother to the bank to draw cash from her account and then return to the shop with the cash to collect the glasses. (At that time Hilja did not have a Public Guardian.)

The store clerk refused to listen to reason as the policy seems to be universally applied in Finland by Instrumentarium.

I have told the store clerk that she tell her management that this story would be publicised broadly on the internet through our blogs, that we would put them on our NEW BEST NOT BUY list and also inform the top management of the company of this incident.

If Instrumentaroum does not tender a public apology, inform us that this policy has been rescinded and we are not compensated for the waste of our time and money in this matter, Instrumentarium stay firmly posted on this list!

Further, this will be the last purchase we will make from this company.

Did you switch OFF?

(Cross-posted on the Oulu Chaff Blog.)

How many of you switched off all your lights and power units between 19:55 and 20:00 hours on 1st February 2007. (As was pointed out to us by 59er Peter Miovic.)

We did and sat in darkness with our living room flooded by the light of a full moon just behind us.

We did it not only to focus on the Climate Change issue but also as a protest to the "Oil Wars" being carried out by the US in Iraq and being planned in Iran!

As we looked around our small colony of 27 houses, we noted that one young couple with two small children had also followed the instructions, but 25 other families had been either oblivious or insensitive to the situation.


Eiffel Tower at sunrise.

The local newspapers did not cover the issue. It was only the television channels, as BBC World, which covered it by showing the switching off of the lights on the Eiffel Tower.

Today, there was much greater TV coverage of the report released today on climate change which stresses that there is 90% certainty that human beings were "very likely" to have been responsible for this.

We wonder why they stopped at saying "very likely" when it is absolutely certain and every scientist in the world studying this has no doubt whatsoever?

Hilmi Oral wins prize

(Cross-posted on the Oulu CHAFF blog.)

This morning when I opened the newspaper, I read with great joy that Hilmi Oral had won the prize for his work in helping Men.


Hilmi teaching a class of kids.

Hilmi Oral is a Turk who has lived in Oulu for the last 15 odd years. He has contributed to the well-being of the lives of many the foreigners who have come to live in this town. His work has not been restricted to men alone. He is regarded as the "BEST" teacher of the Finnish language! Hilmi does not waste time teaching the language based on the complexity of the grammar. He concentrates on helping people to communicate from day 1, just as a small child learns language.

Hilmi is an accomplished singer. He presently works as a Cultural Mediator for the organisation which runs the Oulu Settlement’s Friendship House. He has been working to integrate foreigners into Oulu life. He is soft-spoken and is loved by all of us in Oulu.

There is no one more deserving to have received the prize for this work. Hilmi deserves more than just this prize as he toils some 15 to 16 hours a day for the cause of furthering the life of foreigners in Oulu.

Just last Friday I took four new foreigners to Oulu to his office where he had organised an evening for men. He was so welcoming and humble of his accomplishments.

I feel proud to know a person such as Hilmi who lives in the same city as me!

Two links for you

Susanna has put up a blog entry to wish us a happy Ruby (40th) Wedding Anniversary. On it, little Asha, who is just 9, plays her violin interpretation of Elvis Presley's "Love me Tender".

It can be seen and heard as a UTube video (with father Chris accompanying her on the piano).

Very moving and it had both Annikki and me in tears.



I recently helped a young Polish girl, Kasia Mazur, organise a talk about India for her students of the Middle School.

She went overboard in thanking me.

She set up a great web site which gives an idea of the exhibition she organised.

I certainly do not deserve the praise she showered on me.

Instead, I must confess she turned my exhibits into something very impressive that reached the hearts of her students. Certainly a link worth visiting as it shows how an enterprsining teacher can motivate her students and yet teach them in an unconventional manner.

Thank you Kasia for showing my country in such a positive light.

40 years ago

(Cross-posted on the CHAFF Blog.)



It was 40 years ago that in a small but picturesque town of Shrewsbury in Shropshire, England, that we were joined together in "Holy Matrimony".









Today we celebrated our 40th Wedding Anniversary. Pailin and Unnop carved us a beautiful honey melon.

We received greetings from all corners of the globe which made us feel so humbled that so many of you remembered us on this very auspicious day.

Next target - our 50 years anniversary.

I refer you to my tribute to my dearest girlfriend, wife, mother of our children and a great grandmother of our grandchildren, which I created for her 60th birthday.

Fish food and spawning goldfish

Annikki has been at me for a few days for me to pick up the fish food as the current tin was being rapidly depleted.





She wanted a special sort of white pellet which she can crush and feed to the smaller goldfish in the upstair's aquarium. Out of 37 which were spawned in the outside pond last summer, about 12 have survived to winter indoors.





The two larger fish, the parents, are in Annikki's originally designed table top aquarium.

As I searched at all the pet shops in Oulu, it became obvious that this particular variety of fish food was not in stock anywhere and we would have to wait a few weeks to get hold of it.

So I struck up a conversation with the two young ladies who had just purchased an old established pet shop. They were very knowledgeable and offered me a suitable alternative.

As we talked, I explained that we had spawned a whole of lot of goldfish last summer. They were amazed.

Kampitie bathtub where the goldfish were spawned.

According to their understanding, no one, especially an amateur, has succeeded in spawning goldfish in Oulu.


Grandson Samu on the banks of the summer home
of the Kampitie goldfish.

I explained to them, how this had happened. They were truly interested to understand how we had succeeded.

I did not do a good job of explaining Annikki's unique table top aquarium, so I decided to do this short blog entry as we enter our 41st year of married bliss as this signifies how unusual and successful Annikki is with her ideas.

No credit to me. I just happen to be her greatest admirer!

Special action on 1st February 2007

(Cross-posted on all my major blogs.)

This message was sent to me by my friend 59er Peter Miovic for the widest possible circulation. Since I believe in this cause, I am posting this on all my blogs and groups.

Hope you will take heed and spread it within your circle.

Send this message to as many people as you know!

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An action to bring climate change to the notice of Politicians and World Leaders

On February 1st 2007 take part in one of the biggest actions against climate change organised by the people.

L'Alliance pour la Planète (a group of environmental activists) send this call to all civilians:

Make our planet rest for five minutes!

Everybody is requested to dim his/her lights for five minutes between 7.55 pm and 8.00 pm on February 1st 2007.

This not only to save engergy for five minutes, but to bring this message in a way that will attract the attention of politicians and leaders.

It is time for them to take action and avoid the waste of energy.

During the 5 minutes we'll give the planet rest: it doesn't take long and it won't cost you a thing.

And it will make a statement before the Belgian federal elections that we as citizens want climate on the agenda.

And why February 1st 2007?

Because on that day a new file from the climatologic experts of the United Nations will be published in Paris.

Because it is with our Belgian neigbours, it is impossible to let this opportunity slip!

We have to get attention to the urgent matter of the worlds climatological situation. If everybody takes part in this action it will have an effect on media and politics that might have a real influence, this would be good on such short notice before the (Belgian) elections!

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Make this message go around the globe, send it to friends, family and local politicians. Put it in your newsletter and your blogs.

Dinner with Asheesh, Indu and Karthik

This morning's newspaper brought news of another Indian acquisition of a Finnish facility, the largest Biotechnology facility in our region. The Indians have acquired 90% stake in the facility, the remaining 10% being with the City of Oulu.

Mentioned in the article was the Indian representative on the spot, Dr. Asheesh Kumar and the Chairman of the organisation based in London, Jaswant Shah. The company has deep roots in India in this sector. Asheesh did his masters and Doctorate from Roorkee University and has worked on several projects including ones in Mumbai and Bangalore. His wife, Indu, is an Analytical Chemist and is looking forward to spending some creative years in Finland.

As usual, Jacob rang and spoke with Asheesh soon after he read the news in the paper. They decided to have dinner together, along with me and Asheesh's wife, Indu. Jacob inquired and found both of them to be vegetarians. So he rang Michelle, the Indian owner of the Royal Garden, a Chinese Restaurant in Oulu, and asked her to organise the food.

We were pleasantly surprised to find their 3-year old son, Karthik, very clever and smart kid, also joining us for dinner. Michelle, although she does not normally stay in late, was on hand as our hostess along with Noushad, who is going to run the new Indian Restaurant adjacent to the Chinese Restaurant.

The meal was great and we spent a lot of time finding about each other Indu is a Punjabi, Asheesh is from Rajasthan and Karthik loves to eat meat!

Indu and Asheesh are a pleasant couple. They will find it easy to settle down in Finland.

We are on the lookout for an apartment and a car for them - which should not be difficult to organise.

We look forward to welcoming in Oulu Mr. Jaswant Shah, the 70 year old brain behind this venture, who resides in London.

My childhood friend is now blogging

There have been many people that were my friends when I was a child. Most of them were of my age group. I do not have contact with many if those who were my friends in Bangalore - the Wilsons, the Ealings, Om Prakash, Sahadev, Darius Sagar, Gerald Samuel, the Ferdinands (Peter, Leo), and many more.

In Bangalore, we lived across the road from a College Hostel. The sports ground of the college was also across the road. Besides the large cricket cum football pitch, the basketball court, and the tennis courts, there was also a gravel hockey pitch.

There I watched a great hockey goalkeeper. He fascinated me. I befriended this young college student, 9 years older than me, when I was just 9 years. I became his good friend.

In 1954, after we moved from Bangalore to Bombay, I lost touch with this young man. Many times I thought about him. I blogged about him quite recently.

I was surprised one day last year when I got an email from him. Someone had told him that he was mentioned on my blog.

Our friendship of over 52 years was renewed, as if it had not ended for a day.

Today, I went to read his new blog:Blog of Parayil A. Tharakan (Abe).

That he is an accomplished and published writer is evident from his blog. I enjoyed going through the 8 entries or so he has made so far. From it I learnt about his background, things I never asked when we were friends 52 years ago.

I am glad that he has started blogging. I have linked to his blog from all my pages under the list of blogs of my relatives and friends.

Great to have you on board, Abe. I can now enjoy your writings at the click of a button!